Profile manofyourdreams1961: I want to be the man of your dreams

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Would Describe Myself As Hey there I am a good man - whimsical, super square (now) but if there was ever trouble to be found, I've been there... I am about to turn 50 it's time for me to commit to being who I really am. I can't seem to be attracted or interested in dating white guys, so here I am. It is so easy for me to fall in love with a man with dark skin and eyes, so if it's easy for you to fall in love with a beige man with a past, let's have a conversation. Let's be interested in more than just sex, and let's be highly interested in sex! I am tal - 6'2" - and I like a big man, too, but I am not limited to that. I pretty much love everyone, but who I fall for, there's an element of surrender that takes place on my part, so if you like to pounce on your pretty white man and gently take what you want, I can respond to that. I enjoy the giving up of something, or submitting to something so you can get what you want, and that IS how I get what I want. Mostly, I want to be vulnerable and so in love with you that you are nourished by it and want you to feel free to be vulnerable with me. I promise to make you beautiful, no matter what you look like. It's okay if we start out with you thinking you are not good looking, have a big stomach, etc... I'll be honest if I can't work with it, and I would want that from you, too. If/when we do fall in love, you will be my king, and I want my king not to leave. In spite of my good looks, I have scars, too, and am getting signs of age, like white hairs and a little out of shape - you gotta be able to be with me just as I am and actually appreciate the total package. I am no longer going to win any beauty contests, but once upon a time, I was an angel, and that beauty still resides...

I work making a difference in a third world country and what I'd ultimately like is someone who likes that I do that, even if it's not their thing. I would support you in loving what you do, or doing what you love. A good life with a good man is all I am out to create. What about you? What are you creating?
Sign Virgo

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is Average
My Height Is 6' 2 (1.88 m)
My Eyes Are Blue
My Ethnicity Is Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is Single
I Have Kids No
My Best Feature Is Hands
Body Art Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These No pets

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is Some College
My Speciality Is Other
My Job Title Is Artist/Founder & CEO of a nonprofit
I Live With Roomate(s)
At Home Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink No

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Outcast
My Social Behavior Is Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Relaxing
An Ideal First Date Would Be with someone who is present, and open and willing to let it happen. It doesn't really matter what we're doing or where we are. We are the focus and we have a conversation in which it's easy to share about life. We are not attached to the first date leading us anywhere. We are not resisting any attraction, if there is some, and not afraid to own it if there isn't. We respect each other and are looking for compatibility vs reasons to reject.
I've Always Wanted To Try There is a lot I'd like to do, and I am open to new things, but not so sure about the word TRY in relation to my wants. I either do it or I don't do it. There are some things I'd like to DO, and a few I would not like to do. I do not, for instance, want to have a large spider crawl along my naked arm! I'm not doing that! Also probably not jumping out of an airplane, but open to just about everything else.
My Friends Describe Me As Being Goofy

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Not Religious
My Goal In Life Is Well, what I'm committed to is being who I want to be and doing what I want to do or what I am passionate about, having fun, loving profoundly and making a difference with people. I have reached this goal many times, and there's always more to do, so it's not a destination. It's constant dance, and if one of those is happening, I'm who I want to be.
My Kind Of Humor Is Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch News, Movies, I Don't Like Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Drama
When I Read, I Always Read News, Instructional, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Satire, Technical
My Idea Of Fun Is Number one without a doubt - to be in the presence of love OR to be naked and in the presence of love! Another aspect of that would be being horizontal and looking into the eyes of love. Another aspect, hearing the moans of pleasure coming from you from what I'm doing to you, or what you are doing to me. Beyond that, to have someone who is struggling with something let go of the the struggle and create something new. To have great friends around to laugh and play with. To produce amazing results with one's day. It's fun to be together doing nothing. Nothing leads to something and I am committed to making whatever I'm doing fun.

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For? I look (and listen) for the possibility of profound, unconditional love being fulfilled, and for the moment when someone gets inspired by who they are. I look (and listen) for a persons greatness. I look for softness and openness and connection, for interests and enjoyment, for kindness. I look beneath the surface of your identity so find who is really there.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed