Profile jackintheburbs: Joy Shared is Twice the Joy

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Can Speak English
I Would Describe Myself As Easy going homebody type who enjoys good conversation and the simple things in life: coffee, friends, card games, sitcoms, quiet dinners for two or curled up on a couch with that special someone and watching t.v. and popping junk food. I'm a 55 y.o. black man (part Italian) with a warm smile, sensitive authentic personality and a few extra pounds who lives alone with his cat. I moved to San Mateo nearly 4 years ago after 30 years in San Francisco. I love the quiet but would like to connect with white gay men for friendship and more if the chemistry is there. I haven't dated in a long time and would like to take things slow and see where they lead. I think relationships take time and dedication to build with each step an opportunity for both of us to learn about ourselves and each other. Having said that, I'm not a prude either and am not aversed to having sex sooner rather than later if the spirit moves us. I consider myself a bottom and I still think about sex every 8 seconds (or whatever the thinker tank documented number is for men).
Sign Scorpio

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

Status What do you do?

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is Reserved
My Interest And Hobbies Are Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Games, Dancing, Religion / Spirituality, Cooking, Playing Cards
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Tv
An Ideal First Date Would Be Meeting at a neutral place like a coffee shop or a nice quiet dinner for two, and beginning to get to know each other.
I've Always Wanted To Try eating Rattlesnake meat. I hear it tastes like chicken.
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Someone They Want To Be

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Christian
I Attend Services Once A Month
My Political Views Are Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is Learn more and more how to be Authentic, true to myself and live from that Truth.
My Kind Of Humor Is Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch Situation Comedies, Movies, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Classical, New age
When I Read, I Always Read Anthology, Classic, Fiction, Horror, Religious
My Idea Of Fun Is being introverted I'm not much on crowds but can be persuaded to go to a good street fair. Love coffee shops for intimate conversation, and love a good meat & potatoes restaurant as well as Chinese, Mexican and Italian. I also enjoy cooking for someone

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For? I look for sincere people; I'm drawn to others with a deep since of self worth and awareness, who are honest but not brutal in the name of "honesty". It's important that my friend/mate has a spiritual sense, a positive connection with the "Divine" however it may express itself through him. I'm also attracted to creatives as I am an artist and dancer. Also like a man with a good appetite and who isn't afraid of good ol' fashioned cooking.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed