Profile RelevantStill: Hopeful Romantic Seeks a Final Love

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

First name James
I Can Speak English
I Would Describe Myself As Hello Studly Gents. Well, no one is more surprised than I am to find myself in a search for a love that will last to the end of my days. My ultimate dream man of color possesses presence and an easy smile. He has had some success in life. He is adaptable, open, honest and sees commitment as foundational and not a thing to fear or evade. These attributes are ones I strive to maintain in my own life.

I have four, independent, adult children, my parents are alive and still married...to each other and my six grandchildren represent an experience beyond description.

My former wife and I raised our children to be open-minded and to embrace the strength and beauty of diversity in all its forms. This has been a personal, constant tenet by which I have lived my life.

I have no fears over blending another family with my own. On my side, rest assured we have done it many times before with mostly great results.

I am an extrovert. If you are MBTI - conversant I am an ENFJ and I have Master Practitioner certification from the Myers-Briggs Foundation which I use solely for pro-bono assessments of friends and family.

I seek a black man with a kind heart and an intellect that is real and a personality that is easily approached. Ultimately, I seek a partner in all things. Someone whose is as fair-minded as I am and whose mental health is good and whose heart has ample capacity for love.
I know, I know. I am asking for the moon and the stars, but as the saying goes, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." And as Lin Manuel Miranda
wrote, "I am not throwing away my shot!"
Sign Libra

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is Fit
My Height Is 6' 0 (1.83 m)
My Eyes Are Hazel
My Ethnicity Is Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is Single
I Have Kids Yes - Not At Home
My Best Feature Is Hair
Body Art Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is Grey
I Have One Or More Of These No pets
Willing To Relocate No

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is Some College
My Current Employment Status Is Retired
My Speciality Is Retired
I Live Alone
At Home Friends Come Over Often
I'm A Smoker Yes - But Non Tobacco
I Drink Yes - Socially

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Brain
My Social Behavior Is Observant, Party Starter, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are Family, Dining, Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Music, Movies, Games, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Cars, Fishing / Hunting, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be A drink at my house. Uber to Dinner at a new restaurant neither of us have tried. Walk through the park after din ner. Rooftop bar for champagne cocktails. Uber back to my house for the start of the real fun.
I've Always Wanted To Try Motoryacht living.
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Cool, Perfect, Goofy

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Other
I Attend Services Once A Month
My Political Views Are Very Liberal
My Goal In Life Is Medicare for ALL!
My Kind Of Humor Is Campy, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure, Sadistic, I Never Laugh

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Thriller, I'm A Movie Actor, Adult
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Electronic, Pop, Classical, Jazz, Latin, Ambient, Dance
When I Read, I Always Read News, Auto-biography, Biography, Fiction, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Instructional, Nature, Political, Reference, Religious, Satire, Science
My Idea Of Fun Is Live Musical Theatre. Consignment Store Shopping. Dining al Fresco, Anything in Palm Springs, Quiet Moments with the Right Guy, A life well-lived. Making a difference in someone's life.

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Wit, Money, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For? I am looking for the Unicorn! Ideally, I would like to find someone who is at the same spot in his life that I am, knowing that timing is everything. Someone who is open to building a new life together with me that endures, that grows and becomes something we each cherish and take pride in. I am a realist with dreams. I know that some toad-kissing will take place before my new prince appears and I'm okay with casual dating and making new friends. I look for optimism, respect, and enjoy people who represent net-positives for mankind. Narcissists should not bother contacting me. You really won't like where I shove your gaslighting and manipulations.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed